Going to networking events as an adult reminds me of going to school sponsored dances in middle schools. (well, in my case high school, but because I'm a late bloomer I assume everyone else were acquainted with these awkward minglings before I was).
Everyone is in pronounced cliques, grouped together in various groups throughout the room. Quick glances across the room, fleeting smiles, clutching drinks, because no one comes to dance but you need some sort of physical activity, etc.
But unlike middle school, where you are allowed to be awkward, shy, standoffish and just counting down until you can get out of your 'party' clothes into some real clothes and hang with people you know; adults at networking functions, are expected to play think diving into a group of strangers to smile, shake a hand, drop a business card and say a line is the most fun thing to do.
No matter what your age: it isn't.
BTW: I went to a networking event tonight (could you guess?), stayed for less than 15minutes, spent $9 (parking), owe $19 (I had forgotten my cards), and spoke to three people (if I had stayed any longer, I wouldn't have had enough money to get my car out of the garage - honest).
Learning that my awkward, shy, inner adolescent is still alive and well - priceless.
Thursday, June 18, 2009
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